Being Too Nice Is Being Too Weak Keep Him From Walking Out That Door An Escape from Relationship Hell What Do You Do When He Pisses You Off? Why She's Throwing Herself At You Secrets to Keep From Your Lover I use this information to help determine two things: where the advice seeker went wrong; and how to get them out of the situation and on to a happy ending, based on their history with the other person. When specific details aren’t shared in the story telling process, it makes it impossible to give accurate advice. Sure, when the date came to an end the guy could have said a simple one-liner that totally threw you off, but no matter how great a date is, that one-liner could explain it all. I’ve caught myself withholding some details from friends, which I thought weren’t the most becoming, but in doing so I’ve done myself a disservice. Things aren’t always perfect; if they were we wouldn’t have to run to friends for advice out of self-doubt. Count on friends who won’t judge you, so you don’t have to radio edit your stories. Have you ever heard a hit single on iTunes, after previously hearing it numerous times on the radio? Although there are expletive at times – the full version of the song puts everything into context. And so it is the same in your life. The more detailed your story is, the more reliable the advice will be that you’re getting in return. Inspired by an ongoing rant from one of my girlfriends and some recent news coverage I’ve seen on the notion of “social media addiction,” I decided to write a post on how to know if the person you are dating is more obsessed with social media than spending time with you. |
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