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Sassy - Yes it was definitely because I was insecure. I thought that the title would somehow make me feel safe - like he couldn’t just pick up and leave me if he was my “Boyfriend”.

Oh - and it definitely didn’t help that when I felt unsafe I commiserated with my female friends - a number of whom don’t trust men or were having their own issues. You know how that goes…
Oh - and it definitely didn’t help that when I felt unsafe I commiserated with my female friends - a number of whom don’t trust men or were having their own issues. You know how that goes…

annabelle-

that should teach you not to trust women.
Well, leaving aside the whole “you going through his phone thing” heh, his story is just…sigh…it’s guys like this that ruin it for the rest of us. Never acted on it? He actively contacted another woman!

Look, of COURSE it feels good to know that other women desire you. But to say that actually contacting her himself isn’t acting on it is…well, if it wasn’t a total lie (it is) it would be pathetically stupid (it also is this.)

Sorry about this dude, Annabella. Ugh.